The week between Christmas and New Years Eve can seem like limbo. The old year is almost over and the new is just a turn of the page. The news programs are showing the “year in review” and predictions for the new year all in the same hour. Some of us are people who typically look back and review our past. We may get stuck in the failures or regrets or rejoice over the victories and successes.. Or we may be one who likes to look ahead to the future. What does this New Year hold for us. It’s like the winding road in the country picture lined with tall leafy trees. You can’t see what’s around the bend but it leaves a sense of anticipation for the unknown.
While I wait with anticipation for the unfolding of this New Year, I also like to review the past year. I usually look back over my journals to recall the scriptures God made real to me, what He impressed upon me to believe, answers to prayer, special blessings and the trials I overcame. This past year has been a year of many bends in the road with the unexpected but wonderful happening. Three grandchildren was a wonderful addition. Doing three Uniquely His Workshops was a great opportunity for ministry. Writing two blogs was a fulfillment of a goal for writing and ministry. Traveling to St. Louis for more personality and coaching training was a great experience of learning and networking. Speaking at two Marriage retreats, Minister’s wives Retreat and in Pittsburgh, Quakertown and Aberdeen was challenging but exhilarating. Participating in a thirty and forty day fast was a deeply spiritual experience. Facilitating a new vision for our Women of Calvary ministry has been challenging but exciting as God is birthing a new vision in each of you. 2007 was a year of stretching wide my tent, lengthening my cords, strengthening my stakes and growing in ministry and life. What was it for you?
If we don’t look back and evaluate how will we know if we grew? If we don’t look ahead how can we plan for growth? I don’t know what 2008 holds for me but I know who holds my life in His hands. He does all things well. He father filters every trial and will not give me more than I can bear up under with His help. He has been faithful in the past and He will be faithful in the future, no matter what is around the bend.
Friday, December 28, 2007
Saturday, December 22, 2007
Merry Christ Day!
It's been thirty days since the Thanksgiving greens. I didn't fall off the face of the earth; my internet has not been working at home. Here it is three days before Christmas and I'm sitting in my office blogging because I miss you. I had so many things I wanted to discuss with you in the past four weeks. Oh well, there is a reason for all things.
I trust that you’ve finished shopping and ,like me, you’re getting ready for the Christmas gathering. I’m going grocery shopping after this. I finished my Christmas shopping yesterday. I trust that all is going well with you as you count down to Christmas.
Remember – don’t idealize over this day. It’s a day to celebrate the birth of Christ – into our world and lives. It’s not necessarily going to go perfectly. Some of you couldn’t go home for Christmas – home is where your heart is… make it with whomever you know and love here in Kent County.
Some of you have strained relationships and it’s causing you pain. As women we generally tend to identify and give value to ourselves according to our relationships. When a relationship is hurting, we are hurting. If there is anything you can do to fix it then do. If not, give it to Jesus and trust Him to help work it out in time. Part of maturing is learning to live through the unresolved conflicts – believe me I’ve had many years of experience with this one. It’s strange how just before Christmas some of my most difficult trials with relationships have happened. Remember, Christ is “Emmanuel” – “God with Us.” I made it through the tough times and so will you.
God is with us to help us negotiate unresolved conflicts and relationships. Sometimes we just have to lay them on the altar and walk away trusting that “All is Well” in His hands. Relinquish our rights to everything being swell. Let go and let God take care of it. I can hear you saying, “Yea, that’s easy for you to say; you have no idea what I’m going through.” Well, I might not; but Jesus does. He came as a child to enter our world. He was tempted in all ways just as we are. He had unresolved conflict, betrayal, belittling, scoffing; need I say more? He endured to the point of the cross. Now He is ever interceding for you and me – that tiny child of Bethlehem wrapped in swaddling cloths now wraps his arms of love around you and says, “trust me.”
Some of you don’t have money for gifts and won’t be receiving any gifts. We have tried to identify as many as possible and help through Share the Joy. It’s been a long time since I was in your shoes. But I remember when we were pastoring in Olivet, Michigan with no money for Christmas and Aaron was a baby. Along came a box from the women in my home church in Newark. It was packed full of wonderful gifts for each one of us. We were so surprised and greatly blessed. Though we had no gifts to give one another , God came through for us with people like you. I
f you’re reading this and God is tugging at your heart to come through for someone then please follow that leading. If you are the one at home with no money for gifts; don’t tell yourself any lies. The amount of gifts you give or receive are not an indication of your worth or how much you are loved. How you go through this is very important for you and your children. Surrender your rights to give and receive gifts while enjoying the gift of life and “God with us.” He is the greatest gift we will ever receive. Take time to connect with Christ, receive from Him and be blessed by His presence. It may be the best Christmas you have ever experienced.
Whether you receive the gift you want or not; the meal turns out great or iffy, the company stays too long or doesn’t even come, the kids appreciate their gifts or want to take most of them back , remember it’s not about you. It’s not our day; it’s about remembering that God loved us so much that He gave His only begotten son, Jesus. Celebrate Christ – the anointed one who lives in you. Celebrate your new birth, His Spirit living in and through you. Celebrate big because you have something to celebrate – Christ in us the HOPE of Glory!!
Merry Christ Day – Angela
I trust that you’ve finished shopping and ,like me, you’re getting ready for the Christmas gathering. I’m going grocery shopping after this. I finished my Christmas shopping yesterday. I trust that all is going well with you as you count down to Christmas.
Remember – don’t idealize over this day. It’s a day to celebrate the birth of Christ – into our world and lives. It’s not necessarily going to go perfectly. Some of you couldn’t go home for Christmas – home is where your heart is… make it with whomever you know and love here in Kent County.
Some of you have strained relationships and it’s causing you pain. As women we generally tend to identify and give value to ourselves according to our relationships. When a relationship is hurting, we are hurting. If there is anything you can do to fix it then do. If not, give it to Jesus and trust Him to help work it out in time. Part of maturing is learning to live through the unresolved conflicts – believe me I’ve had many years of experience with this one. It’s strange how just before Christmas some of my most difficult trials with relationships have happened. Remember, Christ is “Emmanuel” – “God with Us.” I made it through the tough times and so will you.
God is with us to help us negotiate unresolved conflicts and relationships. Sometimes we just have to lay them on the altar and walk away trusting that “All is Well” in His hands. Relinquish our rights to everything being swell. Let go and let God take care of it. I can hear you saying, “Yea, that’s easy for you to say; you have no idea what I’m going through.” Well, I might not; but Jesus does. He came as a child to enter our world. He was tempted in all ways just as we are. He had unresolved conflict, betrayal, belittling, scoffing; need I say more? He endured to the point of the cross. Now He is ever interceding for you and me – that tiny child of Bethlehem wrapped in swaddling cloths now wraps his arms of love around you and says, “trust me.”
Some of you don’t have money for gifts and won’t be receiving any gifts. We have tried to identify as many as possible and help through Share the Joy. It’s been a long time since I was in your shoes. But I remember when we were pastoring in Olivet, Michigan with no money for Christmas and Aaron was a baby. Along came a box from the women in my home church in Newark. It was packed full of wonderful gifts for each one of us. We were so surprised and greatly blessed. Though we had no gifts to give one another , God came through for us with people like you. I
f you’re reading this and God is tugging at your heart to come through for someone then please follow that leading. If you are the one at home with no money for gifts; don’t tell yourself any lies. The amount of gifts you give or receive are not an indication of your worth or how much you are loved. How you go through this is very important for you and your children. Surrender your rights to give and receive gifts while enjoying the gift of life and “God with us.” He is the greatest gift we will ever receive. Take time to connect with Christ, receive from Him and be blessed by His presence. It may be the best Christmas you have ever experienced.
Whether you receive the gift you want or not; the meal turns out great or iffy, the company stays too long or doesn’t even come, the kids appreciate their gifts or want to take most of them back , remember it’s not about you. It’s not our day; it’s about remembering that God loved us so much that He gave His only begotten son, Jesus. Celebrate Christ – the anointed one who lives in you. Celebrate your new birth, His Spirit living in and through you. Celebrate big because you have something to celebrate – Christ in us the HOPE of Glory!!
Merry Christ Day – Angela
Tuesday, November 27, 2007
The Thanksgiving Greens
Shopping for Thanksgiving dinner I came across collard greens. It’s not something that I have ever made nor is it my favorite dish. However, since my son-in-law Sean has joined the family I’m trying to be sensitive to his cultural traditions. Coming from a southern state is not so foreign to me since I grew up with Southern cooking – corn bread, fried fish, biscuits and gravy. But Sean has also made our family multi-cultural. I knew He likes collard greens but they are out of my league.
Buying two large batches of collard greens, salt pork, onions and fresh garlic I finished shopping and headed home. After unloading all the groceries I quickly connected to the internet to get a selection of recipes and to see how to prepare the greens. I had no idea what I was getting into.
After cleaning and bleaching the sink, I ran cold water over every leaf and let it sit in the water while I prepared the salt pork, diced the onions and garlic. Then I swished each leaf in the water and ran cold water over each leaf again to remove any grit. I let the greens soak again as I put the salt pork on to slowly fry with the onions and garlic. Then I rinsed the leaves and put them in the colander to drain while I started on the second batch of greens repeating the cleansing, rinsing procedure. This was taking much longer than I had expected.
After turning the ingredients in the frying pan a few times I proceeded to de-vain the leafy collard greens. Taking my sharp paring knife I traced along each side of the main vein excising the nasty, hard thing. Wanting to make the greens just right according to internet instructions, I proceeded to cut out any and all veins on each side of the leaf. I know those of you who are experienced at this are laughing at me – but I wanted to do it right. After finishing the first batch my right index finger was registering pain and screaming “what do you think you’re doing, give me a break.” So, I did.
I put the salt pork into a few quarts of water with the onions and garlic and added some crushed red pepper – Edie said that it needed something “hot.” Then I decided to call Edie to complain about how long this was taking. I hoped she had appreciated the hard work her Mother had done to produce a regular helping of greens for the family. As I told her what I was doing, she laughed out loud. I really didn’t think it was that funny, but she informed me that she had by passed all that work and bought her greens already cleaned, de-veined and chopped in a bag at Acme. “So now you tell me! That would have been some pretty important information to have had a couple of hours earlier” I told her. More laughter.
After our conversation I sat back down with the next batch of greens to spend another hour loving on my son-in-law Sean and praying that my first batch of greens would be worthy of him. Amazingly, those two large batches of greens rendered a quart of cooked greens. All that work for such a small amount of food was unbelievable.
During this whole process I told the Lord that this was my offering of worship to Him and of love to Sean – His child. Romans 12:1 in The Message tells us “So here's what I want you to do, God helping you: Take your everyday, ordinary life—your sleeping, eating, going-to-work, and walking-around life—and place it before God as an offering. Embracing what God does for you is the best thing you can do for him.”
I had worshiped in more ways than one. I had helped to bring a slice of home and tradition into the life of one of God’s children. I had risked failure and a waste of precious time. But I had spent the time well -- time alone with greens and a knife to pray for whoever came to mind and to give thanks for the many blessings of the year. I guess you could say it was my Thanksgiving Greens.
I wish you could have seen the delight on Sean’s face when he uncovered the greens and the relief in me when he declared them “good.” I noticed that he had a few helpings so I guess they were an acceptable offering. I thought they tasted pretty good, but who am I to judge?
As I look back at the Thanksgivings of years past, the faces at the table have changed. Some have passed on, some are married and with their own families; but there has been one constant tradition – turkey, mashed potatoes, stuffing, gravy, green bean casserole, cole slaw and home made rolls. Now as children have been added so are the Thanksgiving greens. Who knows what will be next…
Buying two large batches of collard greens, salt pork, onions and fresh garlic I finished shopping and headed home. After unloading all the groceries I quickly connected to the internet to get a selection of recipes and to see how to prepare the greens. I had no idea what I was getting into.
After cleaning and bleaching the sink, I ran cold water over every leaf and let it sit in the water while I prepared the salt pork, diced the onions and garlic. Then I swished each leaf in the water and ran cold water over each leaf again to remove any grit. I let the greens soak again as I put the salt pork on to slowly fry with the onions and garlic. Then I rinsed the leaves and put them in the colander to drain while I started on the second batch of greens repeating the cleansing, rinsing procedure. This was taking much longer than I had expected.
After turning the ingredients in the frying pan a few times I proceeded to de-vain the leafy collard greens. Taking my sharp paring knife I traced along each side of the main vein excising the nasty, hard thing. Wanting to make the greens just right according to internet instructions, I proceeded to cut out any and all veins on each side of the leaf. I know those of you who are experienced at this are laughing at me – but I wanted to do it right. After finishing the first batch my right index finger was registering pain and screaming “what do you think you’re doing, give me a break.” So, I did.
I put the salt pork into a few quarts of water with the onions and garlic and added some crushed red pepper – Edie said that it needed something “hot.” Then I decided to call Edie to complain about how long this was taking. I hoped she had appreciated the hard work her Mother had done to produce a regular helping of greens for the family. As I told her what I was doing, she laughed out loud. I really didn’t think it was that funny, but she informed me that she had by passed all that work and bought her greens already cleaned, de-veined and chopped in a bag at Acme. “So now you tell me! That would have been some pretty important information to have had a couple of hours earlier” I told her. More laughter.
After our conversation I sat back down with the next batch of greens to spend another hour loving on my son-in-law Sean and praying that my first batch of greens would be worthy of him. Amazingly, those two large batches of greens rendered a quart of cooked greens. All that work for such a small amount of food was unbelievable.
During this whole process I told the Lord that this was my offering of worship to Him and of love to Sean – His child. Romans 12:1 in The Message tells us “So here's what I want you to do, God helping you: Take your everyday, ordinary life—your sleeping, eating, going-to-work, and walking-around life—and place it before God as an offering. Embracing what God does for you is the best thing you can do for him.”
I had worshiped in more ways than one. I had helped to bring a slice of home and tradition into the life of one of God’s children. I had risked failure and a waste of precious time. But I had spent the time well -- time alone with greens and a knife to pray for whoever came to mind and to give thanks for the many blessings of the year. I guess you could say it was my Thanksgiving Greens.
I wish you could have seen the delight on Sean’s face when he uncovered the greens and the relief in me when he declared them “good.” I noticed that he had a few helpings so I guess they were an acceptable offering. I thought they tasted pretty good, but who am I to judge?
As I look back at the Thanksgivings of years past, the faces at the table have changed. Some have passed on, some are married and with their own families; but there has been one constant tradition – turkey, mashed potatoes, stuffing, gravy, green bean casserole, cole slaw and home made rolls. Now as children have been added so are the Thanksgiving greens. Who knows what will be next…
Thursday, November 22, 2007
Thanksgiving Greetings
Happy Thanksgiving to our Calvary Circle of Friends!
I trust you are all celebrating with family or friends. The Turkey is in the oven, greens cooked -- that's another story, cole slaw cooling, potatoes ready to be mashed, table set. There will be fourteen here today -- four grandchildren, six children, and three church family who have no family in the area. Family, food, fun and fellowship.
This Thanksgiving we have so much to be thankful for -- three new grandchildren!!! WOW! What a blessing! Tyler and Taylor arrived in March as Aaron and Jen are adopting the twin two year olds. All boy, active, curious, cute as can be and fearless they still take time for lots of hugs and kisses. I love that about them. Maielle arrived May 12 and is six months now. She is just too cute. All girl, smiles, bright eyes, high pitched squeals of happiness, curly black hair -- she's a delight. Chloe just turned eight this month and is getting more beautiful every year. She's doing great in school, loves to read and scrapbook and help take care of her new brothers.
Six children are such a blessing to us -- yes, our two daughters-in-law and son-in-law are our children. It's great having them all close to home and able to be with us for most holidays as they juggle special days with their in-laws. Grateful that Sean is not overseas this year. Grateful for all the military who are on the front lines for us.
We're grateful also for a church family who loves and supports the work of God in Dover and around the world. Thank you for your prayers, servant leadership, encouragement and help in ministering to our church family and community.
Below is a devotional I read today from Kathryn Robbins of Personality Principles:
I was reading a daily devotion and a new thought came to me, now this may not be new to you, but it was to me. In John 12, we are given a glimpse of another kind of a thanks-giving meal.
Six days before Passover, Jesus arrived in Bethany. Lazarus, whom Jesus had brought back to life, lived there. Dinner was prepared for Jesus in Bethany. Martha served the dinner, and Lazarus was one of the people eating with Jesus. John 12:1-2 (GW)
"Lazarus was one of the people eating..." Wow, this is such an understatement! Only a short time before this, Lazarus was dead - three days dead and now he is eating with Jesus. I think the Passover meal would have been as routine in this culture as our holidays are today - something you just have to do, but this one would have had a special kind of thankfulness to it. One friend, who was dead, is now alive and breaking bread with the man who ordered him to "come out" of the grave. What a meal that must have been. What do you think was on Lazarus' list to be thankful for? I'm thinking - LIFE!
I am so thankful for life. The desire to live is a gift from God in fact; life is the gift, not just this mortal life, but eternal life. The Gospel of John gives us a wonderful word picture about Jesus being our bread of life - eternal life.
I can guarantee this truth: Every believer has eternal life. "I am the bread of life. Your ancestors ate the manna in the desert and died. This is the bread that comes from heaven so that whoever eats it won't die. I am the living bread that came from heaven. Whoever eats this bread will live forever." John 6:47-50 (GW)
As we break bread with friends and family this year, lets ponder the thought of Jesus being our bread of life, with the power to raise us up to new life, to call us out of the grave and into eternal life. What a rush to think of sitting with Jesus at the banquet table prepared for us who believe at the Wedding Supper of the Lamb.
Then the angel said to me, "Write this: 'Blessed are those who are invited to the lamb's wedding banquet.'" He also told me, "These are the true words of God." Rev 19:9 (GW)
Be Blessed -- Angela
I trust you are all celebrating with family or friends. The Turkey is in the oven, greens cooked -- that's another story, cole slaw cooling, potatoes ready to be mashed, table set. There will be fourteen here today -- four grandchildren, six children, and three church family who have no family in the area. Family, food, fun and fellowship.
This Thanksgiving we have so much to be thankful for -- three new grandchildren!!! WOW! What a blessing! Tyler and Taylor arrived in March as Aaron and Jen are adopting the twin two year olds. All boy, active, curious, cute as can be and fearless they still take time for lots of hugs and kisses. I love that about them. Maielle arrived May 12 and is six months now. She is just too cute. All girl, smiles, bright eyes, high pitched squeals of happiness, curly black hair -- she's a delight. Chloe just turned eight this month and is getting more beautiful every year. She's doing great in school, loves to read and scrapbook and help take care of her new brothers.
Six children are such a blessing to us -- yes, our two daughters-in-law and son-in-law are our children. It's great having them all close to home and able to be with us for most holidays as they juggle special days with their in-laws. Grateful that Sean is not overseas this year. Grateful for all the military who are on the front lines for us.
We're grateful also for a church family who loves and supports the work of God in Dover and around the world. Thank you for your prayers, servant leadership, encouragement and help in ministering to our church family and community.
Below is a devotional I read today from Kathryn Robbins of Personality Principles:
I was reading a daily devotion and a new thought came to me, now this may not be new to you, but it was to me. In John 12, we are given a glimpse of another kind of a thanks-giving meal.
Six days before Passover, Jesus arrived in Bethany. Lazarus, whom Jesus had brought back to life, lived there. Dinner was prepared for Jesus in Bethany. Martha served the dinner, and Lazarus was one of the people eating with Jesus. John 12:1-2 (GW)
"Lazarus was one of the people eating..." Wow, this is such an understatement! Only a short time before this, Lazarus was dead - three days dead and now he is eating with Jesus. I think the Passover meal would have been as routine in this culture as our holidays are today - something you just have to do, but this one would have had a special kind of thankfulness to it. One friend, who was dead, is now alive and breaking bread with the man who ordered him to "come out" of the grave. What a meal that must have been. What do you think was on Lazarus' list to be thankful for? I'm thinking - LIFE!
I am so thankful for life. The desire to live is a gift from God in fact; life is the gift, not just this mortal life, but eternal life. The Gospel of John gives us a wonderful word picture about Jesus being our bread of life - eternal life.
I can guarantee this truth: Every believer has eternal life. "I am the bread of life. Your ancestors ate the manna in the desert and died. This is the bread that comes from heaven so that whoever eats it won't die. I am the living bread that came from heaven. Whoever eats this bread will live forever." John 6:47-50 (GW)
As we break bread with friends and family this year, lets ponder the thought of Jesus being our bread of life, with the power to raise us up to new life, to call us out of the grave and into eternal life. What a rush to think of sitting with Jesus at the banquet table prepared for us who believe at the Wedding Supper of the Lamb.
Then the angel said to me, "Write this: 'Blessed are those who are invited to the lamb's wedding banquet.'" He also told me, "These are the true words of God." Rev 19:9 (GW)
Be Blessed -- Angela
Tuesday, November 20, 2007
Totally Free
Lord, break these chains that bind…
My hands, my feet, my mind
Some links were formed
When I was scorned
Some were created when I felt hated
Some were attached by myself
When I would not accept my Savior’s help
Some were added whenever I’d mourn,
And wish that I had never been born.
Each chain gained weight with the enemy’s hate
Lord please don’t leave me in this state
Come pierce my heart with your sweet truth
And heal the wounds I’ve had since youth
Please break each chain, help me to see
The woman of God I’m destined to be
Gloriously, beautifully, TOTALLY FREE!!!!!!
By Lisa Falkner
October 30, 2007
“The captive exile and he who is bent down by chains shall speedily be released: and he shall not die and go down to the pit of destruction, nor shall his food fail. For I am the Lord your God, Who stirs up the sea so that its waves roar and Who by rebuke restrains it –the Lord of hosts is His name.”
Isaiah 51:14-15 Amplified
My hands, my feet, my mind
Some links were formed
When I was scorned
Some were created when I felt hated
Some were attached by myself
When I would not accept my Savior’s help
Some were added whenever I’d mourn,
And wish that I had never been born.
Each chain gained weight with the enemy’s hate
Lord please don’t leave me in this state
Come pierce my heart with your sweet truth
And heal the wounds I’ve had since youth
Please break each chain, help me to see
The woman of God I’m destined to be
Gloriously, beautifully, TOTALLY FREE!!!!!!
By Lisa Falkner
October 30, 2007
“The captive exile and he who is bent down by chains shall speedily be released: and he shall not die and go down to the pit of destruction, nor shall his food fail. For I am the Lord your God, Who stirs up the sea so that its waves roar and Who by rebuke restrains it –the Lord of hosts is His name.”
Isaiah 51:14-15 Amplified
Tuesday, November 6, 2007
"Totally Free" Women of Purpose Conference 2007 Feeback
Ladies , our Women of Purpose Conference was a wonderful experience! From the Prayer Walk on Thursday night to Dr. Deborah Gill's teaching on the "Biblical Basis for Women in Ministry", to the glorious worship with Shannon Lewis and Pam Seaman, Lisa Bevere's insights on the "daughters" and "mothers" and Babbie Masons extremely anointed ministry in song -- we were blessed beyond measure.
Our Prayer Walk was a spiritual experience in itself. After walking the walk and praying at each prayer station, I sat down to pray and another lady sat beside me. She was actually singing prayer phrases. What was interesting was that as I was praying she would agree in prayer by repeating phrases as a song. It was another dimension of corporate prayer that I've never experienced before but it felt like "unity" to the max. Others were praying out loud and interceding; there were waves of intercession and praise.
Dr. Deborah Gill made a difficult subject easy to understand. I believe many women were affirmed and set free from the lies and deception of the enemy just by hearing and receiving the truth of God's Word. I had an opportunity to talk with Deborah the night before at our WOP Conference team dinner. She is very personable and friendly.
Babbie Mason was the highlight for me. Her song "Pray On" and "Great is thy Faithfulness" ministered to me in a special way. Having the opportunity to be with her in the "green room" and speak with her at her table, I sensed a depth of wisdom and anointing that I would like to tap into for our women. I believe she has something to share with us that we need; so I will be inviting her to sing and speak here in Dover.
I found it interesting that the Musicians sang "Be Still" at least three times over the weekend. We had just learned and sang the song for the past two weekends. "When the oceans rise and thunders roar, I will soar with you above the storm. Father you are King over the flood. I will be still and know You are God. Find rest my soul, in Christ alone... " Powerful words for us as women. Whatever storm we are going through, God is King -- He is in control. He is our refuge and our strength. He is our hiding place. He is the Great I AM! He Reigns forever.
Let us remember to "be still" - do not allow our minds to obsess on the troubling thoughts and be distrubed. How do we do this? I know from personal experience how difficult this is. Recently this happened to me and the thoughts tried to invade every moment of my life. I praised God. I prayed the Word when the thoughts invaded by prayer time. I quoted scripture. I purposefully changed the subject in my mind instead of entertaining it. I worked at "being present" in the moment and listening to others, laughing, talking, living.
Christ spoke "peace be still" to the storm and it stopped. Proclaim "peace" in your own situation through the power of the Holy Spirit. Even if the situation doesn't change, we can experience the peace of knowing that Christ is "in the boat" with us and we're not going down. Do not entertain the anxious thoughts but give them to God. Be still... be still... be still... let your heart beat as one with Christ.
For those of you who went to the Conference, let us know what ministered to you the most.
Our Prayer Walk was a spiritual experience in itself. After walking the walk and praying at each prayer station, I sat down to pray and another lady sat beside me. She was actually singing prayer phrases. What was interesting was that as I was praying she would agree in prayer by repeating phrases as a song. It was another dimension of corporate prayer that I've never experienced before but it felt like "unity" to the max. Others were praying out loud and interceding; there were waves of intercession and praise.
Dr. Deborah Gill made a difficult subject easy to understand. I believe many women were affirmed and set free from the lies and deception of the enemy just by hearing and receiving the truth of God's Word. I had an opportunity to talk with Deborah the night before at our WOP Conference team dinner. She is very personable and friendly.
Babbie Mason was the highlight for me. Her song "Pray On" and "Great is thy Faithfulness" ministered to me in a special way. Having the opportunity to be with her in the "green room" and speak with her at her table, I sensed a depth of wisdom and anointing that I would like to tap into for our women. I believe she has something to share with us that we need; so I will be inviting her to sing and speak here in Dover.
I found it interesting that the Musicians sang "Be Still" at least three times over the weekend. We had just learned and sang the song for the past two weekends. "When the oceans rise and thunders roar, I will soar with you above the storm. Father you are King over the flood. I will be still and know You are God. Find rest my soul, in Christ alone... " Powerful words for us as women. Whatever storm we are going through, God is King -- He is in control. He is our refuge and our strength. He is our hiding place. He is the Great I AM! He Reigns forever.
Let us remember to "be still" - do not allow our minds to obsess on the troubling thoughts and be distrubed. How do we do this? I know from personal experience how difficult this is. Recently this happened to me and the thoughts tried to invade every moment of my life. I praised God. I prayed the Word when the thoughts invaded by prayer time. I quoted scripture. I purposefully changed the subject in my mind instead of entertaining it. I worked at "being present" in the moment and listening to others, laughing, talking, living.
Christ spoke "peace be still" to the storm and it stopped. Proclaim "peace" in your own situation through the power of the Holy Spirit. Even if the situation doesn't change, we can experience the peace of knowing that Christ is "in the boat" with us and we're not going down. Do not entertain the anxious thoughts but give them to God. Be still... be still... be still... let your heart beat as one with Christ.
For those of you who went to the Conference, let us know what ministered to you the most.
Tuesday, October 16, 2007
Prayer is a Privilege and a Responsibility
Women, we have the power of prayer as our resource and support at all times. It is both our privilege and responsibility as Christians.
Prayer is a privilege because we can enter the throne room of God at any time to receive help.
Prayer is a privilege because we can enter the throne room of God at any time to receive help.
- Hebrews 4:16 “Let us therefore come boldly to the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy and find grace to help in time of need.” Go boldly!
- James 5:13-18 gives us many reasons to pray.
o Vs. 13 “Is anyone among you suffering? Let her pray.”
o Vs. 14 -15 “Is anyone among you sick? Let her call for the elders of the church and let them pray over her, anointing her with oil in the name of the Lord. And the prayer of faith will save the sick and the Lord will raise her up.”
o Vs. 16 – “Confess your trespasses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed.
o Vs. 16 – “The effective, fervent prayer of a righteous woman avails much.” (is powerful and effective).
o Vs. 17-18 Elijah was a man with a nature like ours, and he prayed earnestly that it would not rain; and it did not rain on the land for three years and six months. And he prayed again, and the heaven gave rain, and the earth produced its fruit.”
o In each case there was power in prayer. - James 4:2-3 “…Yet you do not have because you do not ask. You ask and do not receive, because you ask amiss, that you may spend it on your pleasures.” Women, we need to ask. Don’t be afraid to ask. God does hear us.
- I Thessalonians 5:17 – “Pray without ceasing.” Pray at all times for all things without giving up. Whatever you do – pray!
Prayer is a Responsibility also. “Every right implies a responsibility; every opportunity, an obligation; every possession, a duty.” (John D. Rockafeller). It is our reasonable response to the circumstances of life. Its our responsibility because we have the right to enter the throne room. We have the voice. We see the need (opportunity). We know the solution(possession) is in God so we must respond in prayer. While we sometimes respond with fretting, worrying, gossiping, arguing, fuming, etc. The only response that will produce the results God desires is prayer.
- In prayer we align ourselves with the will of God and the power and resources of heaven. Matthew 26:39
- In prayer we focus not on the problem but on the solution. Psalm 121
- In prayer we focus on the character and attributes of God instead of the enemy. Who He is – I AM! Psalm 46
- In prayer our motivations and attitudes are exposed and cleansed. Psalm 139:23-24 “Search me oh God…”
- In prayer we are transformed. 2 Corinthians 3:18 “being transformed…from glory to glory.”
- In prayer we relinquish control to the all wise God. 2 Corinthians 10:4-5
- In prayer we are renewed with strength as the eagle. Isaiah 40:31
Women, we are never more powerful than when humbled or surrendered in prayer. Prayer is a powerful force, let’s use it to allow God to perform His good pleasure in and through us for His glory.
Monday, October 8, 2007
Why Some Don't Do Women's Ministry
Reading the Blog "Why I don't Do Women's Ministry" by Amy Simpson was interesting to say the least. Amy Simpson wrotle the article for the blog on the "Gifted for Leadership" website. It must have received record comments for a month.
I don't think I could possibly do her justice to summarize what she said, so here it is:
It’s been a long time since I attended a women’s Bible study, luncheon (why don’t they just call them “lunch”?), or anything else just for Christian women. I’ve spent enough of my life feeling bored, self-conscious, and out of place (think junior high gym class).
I used to think I just didn’t fit. Somehow I wasn’t like most women, and this probably had something to do with my spiritual life, so I should try harder to fit in. Now I realize that’s not true. In fact, the funny thing is, I don’t really think I’m a misfit. Most women I know feel the same way I do about women’s ministry programming. I know that women’s ministries do connect with many women and provide important opportunities for growth. But they seem to be focused on serving a relatively small segment of the population. So I wonder: Why do so many of our women’s ministry efforts treat women as if they all have the same lifestyle, schedule, goals, affinity for June Cleaver, and penchant for pink roses? And why are we expected to call ourselves “girlfriends”?
I don’t mean to undermine the importance of women’s ministry, or trivialize the effective ministry that’s happening in many churches. But by and large, I believe our churches are running shallow, one-dimensional programs that miss important opportunities to minister to many women.
Since we are seeking God to birth a new vision for ministry by women to women, the church and community we need to seriously hear from you as to what you think women's ministry should be. Of course, be ready to fulfill that part of the vision.
I can remember a time when I first moved here and had been in a women's group where much of our time was spent making crafts to sell at the Christmas bazaar. Being a stay at home Mom at the time, I enjoyed the fellowship and fun we had creating. But when my life changed I longed for something more meaningful. We began a Monday night prayer meeting which definitely met my need for something more meaningful. At different times in our lives we will have different needs and a women's ministry might not be able to meet all those different needs; but the church as a whole might.
I don't think a women's ministry is meant to meet all the needs but to use the talents and gifts of available women to minister to as many needs as possible that may not be addressed by the other ministries of the church. Our church is already offering classes Wednesday night and Sunday morning. Counseling and discipling are available. Mentoring is still needed. Specific support groups are still needed.
Our culture, the busyness of life, family dynamics, mothers working two fulltime jobs, single moms, etc. present us with challenges that need to be addressed. However, how do we do that when everyone is so overworked already. Women are cleaning, shopping, cooking, doing laundry, being a taxi driver for children, helping with home work, all while holding down a fulltime job outside the home. When do they have time for ministry or to be ministered to?
How do we design a minsitry that empowers women to live in their design, purpose and destiny without adding to the already overloaded schedule? How do we connect women with others who have walked their path already and have important information to share or could help support them?
Whether we want to admit it or not; women need girl friends. Men do not communicate on the same level emotionally as women do. If you don't like the small talk then find a woman who enjoys the deep, analytical conversations -- we are out there. If tea parties are not your cup of tea then help start something that connects women who enjoy sports, motorcycles, hiking, paintballing, etc. If you enjoy deep Bible Studies, facilitate one and invite some other proper, perfect melancholies who appreciate this kind of depth. (see www.uniquelyhis.net Love in the Dining Room Part 2 (Melancholy). If you don't want to leave children behind then organize a playtime together where you can fellowship with other women who have small children. The possibilities are as endless as there are available women.
What do you think? If we are going to have an effective Women's Ministry we need your input.
You may already be getting all the teaching, training, and fellowship you need because you are involved in ministry in some way. Praise God! But if you aren't, what can you do to help other women? What kind of ministry do you feel you need?
If you're interested in reading the full article by Amy Simpson here is the web address:
http://blog.christianitytoday.com/giftedforleadership/2007/08/why_i_dont_do_womens_ministry.html
I don't think I could possibly do her justice to summarize what she said, so here it is:
It’s been a long time since I attended a women’s Bible study, luncheon (why don’t they just call them “lunch”?), or anything else just for Christian women. I’ve spent enough of my life feeling bored, self-conscious, and out of place (think junior high gym class).
In my experience, the people who plan these events make all kinds of assumptions about who I am as a women. For starters, most assume I’m a full-time stay-at-home mom (and the best time of day for a meeting is, of course, 10:00 in the morning). They also seem to believe I enjoy making refrigerator magnets, spend most of my time thinking about fashion and chocolate, and can think of nothing better than getting away from my husband and kids (even though I’ve been at work all day) and hanging out with my “girlfriends.” This isn’t me—at all.
I used to think I just didn’t fit. Somehow I wasn’t like most women, and this probably had something to do with my spiritual life, so I should try harder to fit in. Now I realize that’s not true. In fact, the funny thing is, I don’t really think I’m a misfit. Most women I know feel the same way I do about women’s ministry programming. I know that women’s ministries do connect with many women and provide important opportunities for growth. But they seem to be focused on serving a relatively small segment of the population. So I wonder: Why do so many of our women’s ministry efforts treat women as if they all have the same lifestyle, schedule, goals, affinity for June Cleaver, and penchant for pink roses? And why are we expected to call ourselves “girlfriends”?
I don’t mean to undermine the importance of women’s ministry, or trivialize the effective ministry that’s happening in many churches. But by and large, I believe our churches are running shallow, one-dimensional programs that miss important opportunities to minister to many women.
Since we are seeking God to birth a new vision for ministry by women to women, the church and community we need to seriously hear from you as to what you think women's ministry should be. Of course, be ready to fulfill that part of the vision.
I can remember a time when I first moved here and had been in a women's group where much of our time was spent making crafts to sell at the Christmas bazaar. Being a stay at home Mom at the time, I enjoyed the fellowship and fun we had creating. But when my life changed I longed for something more meaningful. We began a Monday night prayer meeting which definitely met my need for something more meaningful. At different times in our lives we will have different needs and a women's ministry might not be able to meet all those different needs; but the church as a whole might.
I don't think a women's ministry is meant to meet all the needs but to use the talents and gifts of available women to minister to as many needs as possible that may not be addressed by the other ministries of the church. Our church is already offering classes Wednesday night and Sunday morning. Counseling and discipling are available. Mentoring is still needed. Specific support groups are still needed.
Our culture, the busyness of life, family dynamics, mothers working two fulltime jobs, single moms, etc. present us with challenges that need to be addressed. However, how do we do that when everyone is so overworked already. Women are cleaning, shopping, cooking, doing laundry, being a taxi driver for children, helping with home work, all while holding down a fulltime job outside the home. When do they have time for ministry or to be ministered to?
How do we design a minsitry that empowers women to live in their design, purpose and destiny without adding to the already overloaded schedule? How do we connect women with others who have walked their path already and have important information to share or could help support them?
Whether we want to admit it or not; women need girl friends. Men do not communicate on the same level emotionally as women do. If you don't like the small talk then find a woman who enjoys the deep, analytical conversations -- we are out there. If tea parties are not your cup of tea then help start something that connects women who enjoy sports, motorcycles, hiking, paintballing, etc. If you enjoy deep Bible Studies, facilitate one and invite some other proper, perfect melancholies who appreciate this kind of depth. (see www.uniquelyhis.net Love in the Dining Room Part 2 (Melancholy). If you don't want to leave children behind then organize a playtime together where you can fellowship with other women who have small children. The possibilities are as endless as there are available women.
What do you think? If we are going to have an effective Women's Ministry we need your input.
You may already be getting all the teaching, training, and fellowship you need because you are involved in ministry in some way. Praise God! But if you aren't, what can you do to help other women? What kind of ministry do you feel you need?
If you're interested in reading the full article by Amy Simpson here is the web address:
http://blog.christianitytoday.com/giftedforleadership/2007/08/why_i_dont_do_womens_ministry.html
Thursday, October 4, 2007
A Carrot, an Egg or a Coffee Bean?
A young woman went to her mother and told her about
her life and how things were so hard for her.
She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up.
She was tired of fighting and struggling.
It seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose.
Her mother took her to the kitchen.
She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire.
Soon the pots came to boil. In the first she placed carrots,
in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans.
She let them sit and boil, without saying a word.
In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners.
She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl.
She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl.
Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl.
Turning to her daughter, she asked, "Tell me, what do you see?"
"Carrots, eggs, and coffee," she replied.
Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots.
She did and noted that they were soft.
The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it.
After pulling off the shell, she observed the hardboiled egg.
Finally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the coffee.
The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma.
The daughter then a sked, "What does it mean, mother?
"Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity ... boiling water. Each reacted differently.
The carrot went in strong, hard,and unrelenting.
However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak.
The egg had been fragile.
Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior,
but after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened.
The ground coffee beans were unique, however.
After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.
"Which are you?" she asked her daughter.
"When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond?
Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?"
Think of this: Which am I?
Am I the carrot that seems strong,
but with pain and adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?
Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat ?
Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death,
a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial,
have I become hardened and stiff?
Does my shell look the same,
but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and hardened heart?
Or am I like the coffee bean?
The bean actually changes the hot water,
the very circumstance that brings the pain
When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor.
If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst,
you get better and change the situation around you.
When the hour is the darkest and trials are their greatest,
do you elevate yourself to another level?
How do you handle adversity?
Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?
Thursday, September 27, 2007
I've got What it Takes
Deuteronomy 30:11-14
Now what I am commanding you today is not too difficult for you or beyond your reach.
It is not up in heaven, so that you have to ask, "Who will ascend into heaven to get it and proclaim it to us so we may obey it?" Nor is it beyond the sea, so that you have to ask, "Who will cross the sea to get it and proclaim it to us so we may obey it?"
No, the word is very near you; it is in your mouth and in your heart so you may obey it.”
We make living for God so much more difficult than it really is. Another translation says that it’s not too “mysterious” or “grievous.” We keep searching for deeper truths when we haven’t even used the truths He has already given us.
After reading this scripture I was writing my prayer and I wrote, “Lord help me to . . .” All of a sudden it came to me, “Angela you’re always asking for help from somewhere out there as if you had to go up to heaven to get it or over a sea to find it – you’ve got all the help you need within you.” The Word of God has been deposited in my heart since I was four years old and the Holy Spirit dwells in my spirit. He is my constant source of help. I just have to choose to use His power. All the Word I need for now is in my heart already; I just need to live it.
Now I know for some of you this was no stark revelation! But it was like God had to hit me over the head – “you’ve got what it takes; just use it!” I’m a little thick skulled as my husband can attest. Sometimes I need the same truth thrown at me from different directions before I really get the point. Are you getting it?
God has given us everything we need for life and godliness through our knowledge (experiential) of Christ Jesus. We just need to use it. Quit looking for a magic potion, seven keys to this and three secrets to that.
Help is not on the way – help is HERE, so near – His Word implanted in our minds and hearts and His power living and moving within us.
Hallelujah!! I can do all things -- all things -- through Christ who infuses His power within me. I've got what it takes!
Now what I am commanding you today is not too difficult for you or beyond your reach.
It is not up in heaven, so that you have to ask, "Who will ascend into heaven to get it and proclaim it to us so we may obey it?" Nor is it beyond the sea, so that you have to ask, "Who will cross the sea to get it and proclaim it to us so we may obey it?"
No, the word is very near you; it is in your mouth and in your heart so you may obey it.”
We make living for God so much more difficult than it really is. Another translation says that it’s not too “mysterious” or “grievous.” We keep searching for deeper truths when we haven’t even used the truths He has already given us.
After reading this scripture I was writing my prayer and I wrote, “Lord help me to . . .” All of a sudden it came to me, “Angela you’re always asking for help from somewhere out there as if you had to go up to heaven to get it or over a sea to find it – you’ve got all the help you need within you.” The Word of God has been deposited in my heart since I was four years old and the Holy Spirit dwells in my spirit. He is my constant source of help. I just have to choose to use His power. All the Word I need for now is in my heart already; I just need to live it.
Now I know for some of you this was no stark revelation! But it was like God had to hit me over the head – “you’ve got what it takes; just use it!” I’m a little thick skulled as my husband can attest. Sometimes I need the same truth thrown at me from different directions before I really get the point. Are you getting it?
God has given us everything we need for life and godliness through our knowledge (experiential) of Christ Jesus. We just need to use it. Quit looking for a magic potion, seven keys to this and three secrets to that.
Help is not on the way – help is HERE, so near – His Word implanted in our minds and hearts and His power living and moving within us.
Hallelujah!! I can do all things -- all things -- through Christ who infuses His power within me. I've got what it takes!
Monday, September 24, 2007
The Tune-Up
Pastor has been talking passionately and directly to our hearts with the present series of “Government Begins in the Home”. The focus begins in the relationship between husband and wife; how we show love, respect and caring for each other. Although this self-examination of our hearts may cause a whirl of different emotions to churn inside, it is essential, it is vital to our relationship with God and our spouse.
If we each were asked where we were and how we felt on September 11, 2001, I believe that we all would share in the enormous tragedies that occurred on that day. But, if we were to delve deeper, we would have to admit that the real crime and tragedy was that such a nightmare could even happen to us on our own soil. It should have never happened.
I believe the same is true in our marriages. Three years ago, my husband, David and I were at such a place. For two people who had so loved each other, how could so many things go wrong? These things were never to happen, not to us. But they did happen, and on our own soil. It did not happen overnight, years of deterioration and neglect led up to that moment. We were at our own Ground Zero.
The truth can be very painful; but living without it is torturous. Without truth, there can be no healing. We must also be careful ladies of one of our greatest faults, self-righteousness. The Bible references this as being the greatest sin. Many women, myself included, may have felt or feel that they are doing everything right, it is their husband that has/had the problem. This view also lends to an attitude of denial and lacking any accountability on our parts. Take an example where you and your spouse have had an argument. Let’s say that you see your husband as being 80% wrong, and you, 20% in the wrong. Then, own up to your part, and ask God to help you with the 20% of that battle. Don’t try to lay all the cards out on the table for your husband as to how you perceive his being 80% wrong. Don’t try to control his behaviors or thought processes. The only thing we control is our own reactions and behaviors.
Our relationship tune-ups and maintenance must be on-going. What thoughts am I having about my spouse? How do I talk to and treat him/her? What are my actions saying? If God would not be happy with our answers to any of these questions, we must make the time to address them now --- not 6 months down the road. Take the time to love each other, and ask God to bless your marriage in truth and wisdom
You and your spouse may be at different places in the walk with the Lord. Perhaps your spouse has not asked the Lord to meet him/her in their heart. Above all else, pray for your spouse’s salvation.
Respectfully submitted by Lisa A. Boothe
If we each were asked where we were and how we felt on September 11, 2001, I believe that we all would share in the enormous tragedies that occurred on that day. But, if we were to delve deeper, we would have to admit that the real crime and tragedy was that such a nightmare could even happen to us on our own soil. It should have never happened.
I believe the same is true in our marriages. Three years ago, my husband, David and I were at such a place. For two people who had so loved each other, how could so many things go wrong? These things were never to happen, not to us. But they did happen, and on our own soil. It did not happen overnight, years of deterioration and neglect led up to that moment. We were at our own Ground Zero.
The truth can be very painful; but living without it is torturous. Without truth, there can be no healing. We must also be careful ladies of one of our greatest faults, self-righteousness. The Bible references this as being the greatest sin. Many women, myself included, may have felt or feel that they are doing everything right, it is their husband that has/had the problem. This view also lends to an attitude of denial and lacking any accountability on our parts. Take an example where you and your spouse have had an argument. Let’s say that you see your husband as being 80% wrong, and you, 20% in the wrong. Then, own up to your part, and ask God to help you with the 20% of that battle. Don’t try to lay all the cards out on the table for your husband as to how you perceive his being 80% wrong. Don’t try to control his behaviors or thought processes. The only thing we control is our own reactions and behaviors.
Our relationship tune-ups and maintenance must be on-going. What thoughts am I having about my spouse? How do I talk to and treat him/her? What are my actions saying? If God would not be happy with our answers to any of these questions, we must make the time to address them now --- not 6 months down the road. Take the time to love each other, and ask God to bless your marriage in truth and wisdom
You and your spouse may be at different places in the walk with the Lord. Perhaps your spouse has not asked the Lord to meet him/her in their heart. Above all else, pray for your spouse’s salvation.
Respectfully submitted by Lisa A. Boothe
Sunday, September 16, 2007
The Rhythm of Fall
Can you believe that it's September 16 already? In a week it will be Fall.
I'm loving this cooler weather -- please let it stay. I love autumn. It's my favorite time of year. The crisp, fresh air with cooler temperatures is infigorating to me. I'm not sure why I like the fall so much except that there is a rhythm to it that is familiar and comforting. Fall is a coming back to the rhythm of life, but it's more. Each fall as a new year of school or college would begin I was filled with a sense of expectation and possibility. New classes, new school books, new book covers, new friend s all stirred an awakening of expectation. It was almost as if I was standing tall on tippy toe expecting something exciting to happen in the new year. The cooler temperatures were like a slap in the face to wake me up to the possibilites in life.
What are you expecting? New growth in your life, a new level of spiritual or emotional maturity, a new challenge? What awaits you? Death of something old and unproductive in your life as winter comes? A sloughing off of old negative attitudes or patterns? I find the fall season as a good season to store "acorns" of truth in my heart upon which to reflect and build. As the leaves fall from the trees it reminds me to let go of the things in my life that have kept me from moving forward and growing to make room for something new. Whatever, there is a cycle to life and I enjoy the changing of seasons and rhythms. I like new beginnings.
Everyday is a new beginning. What is ready to be pushed out and sloughed off? What is stirring inside to begin? What is patiently waiting inside ready to make its appearancce. It's time -- the season and color of change. Embrace it.
I'm loving this cooler weather -- please let it stay. I love autumn. It's my favorite time of year. The crisp, fresh air with cooler temperatures is infigorating to me. I'm not sure why I like the fall so much except that there is a rhythm to it that is familiar and comforting. Fall is a coming back to the rhythm of life, but it's more. Each fall as a new year of school or college would begin I was filled with a sense of expectation and possibility. New classes, new school books, new book covers, new friend s all stirred an awakening of expectation. It was almost as if I was standing tall on tippy toe expecting something exciting to happen in the new year. The cooler temperatures were like a slap in the face to wake me up to the possibilites in life.
What are you expecting? New growth in your life, a new level of spiritual or emotional maturity, a new challenge? What awaits you? Death of something old and unproductive in your life as winter comes? A sloughing off of old negative attitudes or patterns? I find the fall season as a good season to store "acorns" of truth in my heart upon which to reflect and build. As the leaves fall from the trees it reminds me to let go of the things in my life that have kept me from moving forward and growing to make room for something new. Whatever, there is a cycle to life and I enjoy the changing of seasons and rhythms. I like new beginnings.
Everyday is a new beginning. What is ready to be pushed out and sloughed off? What is stirring inside to begin? What is patiently waiting inside ready to make its appearancce. It's time -- the season and color of change. Embrace it.
Tuesday, August 28, 2007
Honoring God is Central
Haggai 1:8-9 Then God said:
"Here's what I want you to do:
Climb into the hills and cut some timber.
Bring it down and rebuild the Temple.
Do it just for me. Honor me.
You've had great ambitions for yourselves, but nothing has come of it.
The little you have brought to my Temple I've blown away—there was nothing to it. “
God’s Honor is central. We are His children. Children reflect their parents’ lives and so we reflect His life. Our bodies are His Temple. Our choices affect the quality of our lives and the honor of His name. We aren’t consciously aware of the need to honor God because our own pursuits or needs are at the forefront of our minds. We’re busy with life – our life and balancing all the balls of responsibility.
We make choices out of those needs. We respond to the stimuli around us. If we’re into balancing then His honor is just one more ball to balance. However, if we’re into centrality and Christ is at the center of everything we are and do; honoring God just becomes as natural as breathing.
A well known tele-evangelist recently said in her blog “I live in a rhythm that brings an overall balance.” Yet, that rhythm has not included honoring her marriage or her God. That is not balance; but denial. One doesn’t have to know the circumstances of the breakup to know that this is a marriage that took a backseat to ministry.
God doesn’t want our ministry without an honoring relationship. He wants relationship and He wants that relationship reflected in every other relationship in our lives, especially our marriages. Our marriage is a reflection of Christ’s relationship to the church. Our marriage brings honor and glory to God or is a living testimony that we haven’t put the Word into action in that relationship. It communicates to some that the Word doesn’t work or you can discriminate about which scripture to obey.
Let this be a warning to us to check our own lives. Are we honoring God in our relationships? Is Christ at the Center of our lives or relegated to a compartment or a ball to be balanced? Are we ministering out of selfish ambition while our marriage and family are suffering?
Today, what will “honoring God” look like in our lives?
"Here's what I want you to do:
Climb into the hills and cut some timber.
Bring it down and rebuild the Temple.
Do it just for me. Honor me.
You've had great ambitions for yourselves, but nothing has come of it.
The little you have brought to my Temple I've blown away—there was nothing to it. “
God’s Honor is central. We are His children. Children reflect their parents’ lives and so we reflect His life. Our bodies are His Temple. Our choices affect the quality of our lives and the honor of His name. We aren’t consciously aware of the need to honor God because our own pursuits or needs are at the forefront of our minds. We’re busy with life – our life and balancing all the balls of responsibility.
We make choices out of those needs. We respond to the stimuli around us. If we’re into balancing then His honor is just one more ball to balance. However, if we’re into centrality and Christ is at the center of everything we are and do; honoring God just becomes as natural as breathing.
A well known tele-evangelist recently said in her blog “I live in a rhythm that brings an overall balance.” Yet, that rhythm has not included honoring her marriage or her God. That is not balance; but denial. One doesn’t have to know the circumstances of the breakup to know that this is a marriage that took a backseat to ministry.
God doesn’t want our ministry without an honoring relationship. He wants relationship and He wants that relationship reflected in every other relationship in our lives, especially our marriages. Our marriage is a reflection of Christ’s relationship to the church. Our marriage brings honor and glory to God or is a living testimony that we haven’t put the Word into action in that relationship. It communicates to some that the Word doesn’t work or you can discriminate about which scripture to obey.
Let this be a warning to us to check our own lives. Are we honoring God in our relationships? Is Christ at the Center of our lives or relegated to a compartment or a ball to be balanced? Are we ministering out of selfish ambition while our marriage and family are suffering?
Today, what will “honoring God” look like in our lives?
Tuesday, August 21, 2007
Hospitality -- an option or a must?
Hospitality in Biblical times was a sign of being civilized. For the Greeks it had religious significance since Zeus was the god of hospitality. For the Egyptians it helped secure a place in the future life. In general hospitality was a necessary obligation to avoid violence. There was an actual “hospitality code” that included initial invitation, screening, provision with protection and departure. A stranger presented themselves at the public gate or city well and waited for someone to offer hospitality. Screening could include asking them questions or having them display their ability in their craft as the Apostle Paul was asked to speak. Once the stranger was invited the host provided his best meal, entertainment and protection. At departure the strangers were also provided with food and water for the journey. Hospitality offered protection, warmth and friendliness to strangers and aliens. It was a necessary art in the days of no Holiday Inns.
Hospitality was practiced in the New Testament as people opened their hearts and homes to Jesus and his ministry. Mary and Martha are prime examples. Without hospitality the missionary journeys of Paul would have been impossible. He blazed new trails and started new churches as people opened their homes to this stranger.
Traveling on a journey necessitated hospitality in the first place. Abraham would have starved and died without it on his way to Canaan. Jesus would have been out in the cold and the new church would have died in the streets of Jerusalem if Christians had not practiced hospitality
Today, hospitality seems to be a lost art. Our homes are our private castle. We retreat to our homes hoping to find relief and safety after a hectic day of work filled with rejections of offers, rude customers, road rage, and unrealistic demands. Why would we want to invite anyone into our safe comfortable home and take a chance of our privacy being invaded? Why would anyone want to leave their home?
Romans 12: 13 tells us to “Share with God's people who are in need. Practice hospitality.” Hebrews 13:2 “Keep on loving each other as brothers. Do not forget to entertain strangers, for by so doing some people have entertained angels without knowing it.” Was this just for those times?
I Peter 4:7-10 tells us, “The end of all things is near. Therefore be clear minded and self-controlled so that you can pray. Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins. Offer hospitality to one another without grumbling. Each one should use whatever gift he has received to serve others, faithfully administering God's grace in its various forms.” The importance of hospitality is wrapped up in a mandate for the end of times. Is this a Biblical mandate for the art of hospitality today?
Can we not share with those in need without inviting them into our homes? Can’t we just take strangers out to lunch at McDonalds or Golden Corral and play it safe? What’s the big deal? It’s not like the world is a dangerous place or something is it? We sit with these strangers in church? What more do you want, Lord?
Our Christian life is a journey and we desperately need to take in “strangers’’ in the faith. It's a jungle out there, you know. They need a friendly, warm face to welcome them into the family of grace. They need the Word to feed their souls – the Word that you have already learned and applied into your life and are living -- it's easy to receive and digest – it’s your best. Like Lazarus after being raised from the dead, their grave cloths of death can only be removed with your help. Food and water for the journey is a necessity for the disciple.
But who will entertain these strangers? Who will open their hearts and homes to share a meal – to share the life of Christ – a prayer – a word of encouragement and support for the journey?
Hospitality is more than a need – it’s a must. The shared home and meal is a sign of civilization – love and obedience to Christ. It’s a basic art that has been lost among all the progress of civilization. It’s the missing element that will fuel life and breath into the dying body of Christ. Strangers are standing at the gate? What will we do? Think about the alternatives -- "'where everybody knows their name."' How will we respond?
Hospitality was practiced in the New Testament as people opened their hearts and homes to Jesus and his ministry. Mary and Martha are prime examples. Without hospitality the missionary journeys of Paul would have been impossible. He blazed new trails and started new churches as people opened their homes to this stranger.
Traveling on a journey necessitated hospitality in the first place. Abraham would have starved and died without it on his way to Canaan. Jesus would have been out in the cold and the new church would have died in the streets of Jerusalem if Christians had not practiced hospitality
Today, hospitality seems to be a lost art. Our homes are our private castle. We retreat to our homes hoping to find relief and safety after a hectic day of work filled with rejections of offers, rude customers, road rage, and unrealistic demands. Why would we want to invite anyone into our safe comfortable home and take a chance of our privacy being invaded? Why would anyone want to leave their home?
Romans 12: 13 tells us to “Share with God's people who are in need. Practice hospitality.” Hebrews 13:2 “Keep on loving each other as brothers. Do not forget to entertain strangers, for by so doing some people have entertained angels without knowing it.” Was this just for those times?
I Peter 4:7-10 tells us, “The end of all things is near. Therefore be clear minded and self-controlled so that you can pray. Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins. Offer hospitality to one another without grumbling. Each one should use whatever gift he has received to serve others, faithfully administering God's grace in its various forms.” The importance of hospitality is wrapped up in a mandate for the end of times. Is this a Biblical mandate for the art of hospitality today?
Can we not share with those in need without inviting them into our homes? Can’t we just take strangers out to lunch at McDonalds or Golden Corral and play it safe? What’s the big deal? It’s not like the world is a dangerous place or something is it? We sit with these strangers in church? What more do you want, Lord?
Our Christian life is a journey and we desperately need to take in “strangers’’ in the faith. It's a jungle out there, you know. They need a friendly, warm face to welcome them into the family of grace. They need the Word to feed their souls – the Word that you have already learned and applied into your life and are living -- it's easy to receive and digest – it’s your best. Like Lazarus after being raised from the dead, their grave cloths of death can only be removed with your help. Food and water for the journey is a necessity for the disciple.
But who will entertain these strangers? Who will open their hearts and homes to share a meal – to share the life of Christ – a prayer – a word of encouragement and support for the journey?
Hospitality is more than a need – it’s a must. The shared home and meal is a sign of civilization – love and obedience to Christ. It’s a basic art that has been lost among all the progress of civilization. It’s the missing element that will fuel life and breath into the dying body of Christ. Strangers are standing at the gate? What will we do? Think about the alternatives -- "'where everybody knows their name."' How will we respond?
Saturday, August 18, 2007
What Am I?
I can make you rise or fall.
I can work for you or against you.
I can make you a success or a failure.
I control the way that you feel and the way that you act.
I can make you laugh . . . work . . . . love.
I can make your heart sing
with joy . . . excitement . . . elation.
Or
I can make you wretched . . . dejected . . . morbid.
I can make you sick . . . listless.
I can be as a shackle . . . heavy . . . attached
. . . burdensome.
Or
I can be nurtured and grown to be great and beautiful
. . . seen by the eyes of others through action in you
I can never be removed . . . only replaced.
I am a THOUGHT.
Why not know me better?
…by Bob Conklin
I can work for you or against you.
I can make you a success or a failure.
I control the way that you feel and the way that you act.
I can make you laugh . . . work . . . . love.
I can make your heart sing
with joy . . . excitement . . . elation.
Or
I can make you wretched . . . dejected . . . morbid.
I can make you sick . . . listless.
I can be as a shackle . . . heavy . . . attached
. . . burdensome.
Or
I can be nurtured and grown to be great and beautiful
. . . seen by the eyes of others through action in you
I can never be removed . . . only replaced.
I am a THOUGHT.
Why not know me better?
…by Bob Conklin
“Every thought you have shapes your life.
The sum of all your thoughts comprises your overall attitude.”
John Maxwell pg. 11 The Difference Maker
Women, we have the power of choice. We can choose to entertain or decline the thoughts that come to our minds. The choices we make will shape our attitudes, actions and our lives while negatively impacting others. Let's not abuse or misuse this power but use it to replace the negative, critical, self-deprecating, defeating, paranoid thoughts with ones worthy of who we are in Christ. What are your thoughts?
Tuesday, August 14, 2007
See You on the Water!
This past week I had to opportunity to attend the simulcast of the Willow Creek Leadership Summit. I was given a free ticket and could stay with my sister so I took advantage of the opportunity to learn and grow. I found it very interesting that the very first workshop by Bill Hybels spoke to something my son and I had just discussed. Whew! I had given good advice but who am I next to Bill Hybels. I took great notes and passed them on.
Then Bill Hybels interviewed Carla Fiorna who was recently the number one woman in Business according to Fortune Magazine. I'm not sure she is a Christian but she said some powerful things that complimented what Bill had shared. I probably received more from her than anyone. Interesting!
One thing she said that stood out to me was "Give them a vision more compelling than their fear." Well, was she right on or what? We are all born with a sense of fear -- fear of heights, spiders - yikes; fear of speaking in public, fear of needles , fear of change -- you name it and there's a fear. But I think one that God is endeavoring to address for us as women is the fear of getting out of our comfort zones. It takes something very compelling to get most of us out of our comfortable secure boats of safety.
Carla shared that as long as we are in our comfort zone we're not growing; we're just practicing the same skill over and over. To learn and grow we need to move out of our comfort zone of ease. For some of you just hearing this caused fear to rise. For others it produced a sense of excitement.
I know He's birthing something in you just as He is in me. Keep praying and listening for His promptings in you.
What is he burdening you for?
What stirs your heart when you see or hear about it?
What talent, capacity or gifting do you need to use for Him?
What have you gone through that could be used to help someone else negotiate through those troubled waters?
What scripture verse is your favorite? Is there a hint in that verse for the place God wants to use you to minister to others?
Allow the Holy Spirit to hover over you. He's birthing His will and purposes and He wants to use you. Will you get off the bench and into the game? God promises to give you the courage and strength. You can't learn anything new if you stay in your comfort zone - you're just practicing the same skill. You have to get out of your boat to walk on water - then God miraculously enables you to operate in this new arena as you add knowledge, practice and skill.
Staying in the boat is safe - or is it? Walking on the water is exciting. Yes, it's scary but if what you're doing doesn't' scare you to death then you won't need any help from God. To me, that is more scary. I'd rather get a little wet than stagnate in my boat.
Push through the precipice of fear onto the path of preparation till you get to the pier of decision and past the point of no return onto the waters of your destiny! God is with you all the way!
What is the vision God is giving you? What vision is God giving you that is more compelling than your fear?
See
You
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R . . .!
Then Bill Hybels interviewed Carla Fiorna who was recently the number one woman in Business according to Fortune Magazine. I'm not sure she is a Christian but she said some powerful things that complimented what Bill had shared. I probably received more from her than anyone. Interesting!
One thing she said that stood out to me was "Give them a vision more compelling than their fear." Well, was she right on or what? We are all born with a sense of fear -- fear of heights, spiders - yikes; fear of speaking in public, fear of needles , fear of change -- you name it and there's a fear. But I think one that God is endeavoring to address for us as women is the fear of getting out of our comfort zones. It takes something very compelling to get most of us out of our comfortable secure boats of safety.
Carla shared that as long as we are in our comfort zone we're not growing; we're just practicing the same skill over and over. To learn and grow we need to move out of our comfort zone of ease. For some of you just hearing this caused fear to rise. For others it produced a sense of excitement.
I know He's birthing something in you just as He is in me. Keep praying and listening for His promptings in you.
What is he burdening you for?
What stirs your heart when you see or hear about it?
What talent, capacity or gifting do you need to use for Him?
What have you gone through that could be used to help someone else negotiate through those troubled waters?
What scripture verse is your favorite? Is there a hint in that verse for the place God wants to use you to minister to others?
Allow the Holy Spirit to hover over you. He's birthing His will and purposes and He wants to use you. Will you get off the bench and into the game? God promises to give you the courage and strength. You can't learn anything new if you stay in your comfort zone - you're just practicing the same skill. You have to get out of your boat to walk on water - then God miraculously enables you to operate in this new arena as you add knowledge, practice and skill.
Staying in the boat is safe - or is it? Walking on the water is exciting. Yes, it's scary but if what you're doing doesn't' scare you to death then you won't need any help from God. To me, that is more scary. I'd rather get a little wet than stagnate in my boat.
Push through the precipice of fear onto the path of preparation till you get to the pier of decision and past the point of no return onto the waters of your destiny! God is with you all the way!
What is the vision God is giving you? What vision is God giving you that is more compelling than your fear?
See
You
On the
W
A
T
E
R . . .!
Monday, July 23, 2007
Let the Unwrapping Begin
Bill Hybels says in Communicate with Power, “We find that much of what we have to do is attempt to speak to people’s brokenness, their addictions, their wounds, their victimizations. We’re finding that instead of just discipling people we lead to Christ, we have to almost re-parent them before they’re capable of being discipled because they have lived with so much trauma. They have been wounded and broken so badly that most of the time some form of counseling is necessary.”
Discipling is not an easy or quick process in view of the condition of the world. Jesus told the disciples to unwrap Lazarus from the grave cloths. Lazarus had been raised from the dead but he was wrapped tightly in grave cloths. We too have been raised from the death of slavery to sin. We wear the grave cloths of shame, rejection, victimization, addictions, pain and trauma. Who will unwrap the grave cloths from our souls?
We need those of you who have been freed from your grave cloths to help unwrap others through mentoring, coaching, friendship, small groups, prayer and testimonies. So much has been given to us and to whom much is given, much is required.
What is God birthing in you? Is there a desire to see others freed as you have been freed? If so, pray that God will lead you to someone who needs the grave cloths removed. Give them your friendship, your time, your story as you unwrap the cloths binding them in their shame, fear, pain, addiction, victimization or trauma. Yes, I know that it is scary and you can only do so much. But God in and through you can do mighty things – Zechariah 4:6 says “'Not by might nor by power, but by my Spirit,' says the LORD Almighty.”
If the situation is too much for you there are counselors among you who could volunteer to help one person at a time walk through their healing. Maybe God wants you to share your testimony and pray with them and another person to counsel or coach. Discipling is a multi-layered approach that is required in the midst of a healing community of believers. It cannot be done without you.
Did you feel something fluttering within as you read about this? Is God stirring your heart? Or are you one of those who need the help? Let’s circle around those who need a hand. Let the unwrapping begin…
Discipling is not an easy or quick process in view of the condition of the world. Jesus told the disciples to unwrap Lazarus from the grave cloths. Lazarus had been raised from the dead but he was wrapped tightly in grave cloths. We too have been raised from the death of slavery to sin. We wear the grave cloths of shame, rejection, victimization, addictions, pain and trauma. Who will unwrap the grave cloths from our souls?
We need those of you who have been freed from your grave cloths to help unwrap others through mentoring, coaching, friendship, small groups, prayer and testimonies. So much has been given to us and to whom much is given, much is required.
What is God birthing in you? Is there a desire to see others freed as you have been freed? If so, pray that God will lead you to someone who needs the grave cloths removed. Give them your friendship, your time, your story as you unwrap the cloths binding them in their shame, fear, pain, addiction, victimization or trauma. Yes, I know that it is scary and you can only do so much. But God in and through you can do mighty things – Zechariah 4:6 says “'Not by might nor by power, but by my Spirit,' says the LORD Almighty.”
If the situation is too much for you there are counselors among you who could volunteer to help one person at a time walk through their healing. Maybe God wants you to share your testimony and pray with them and another person to counsel or coach. Discipling is a multi-layered approach that is required in the midst of a healing community of believers. It cannot be done without you.
Did you feel something fluttering within as you read about this? Is God stirring your heart? Or are you one of those who need the help? Let’s circle around those who need a hand. Let the unwrapping begin…
Thursday, July 19, 2007
Seeing Beyond the Usual Again
Sitting on the beach and being a Choleric on vacation I was relaxing but alert to possibilities of seeing beyond the usual. Suddenly hearing a small child screaming I looked around and saw a man carrying a cutie kicking and screaming ferociously. She was either scared to death to go down to the ocean or manipulating her father. The father put her down and immediately the screaming stopped. Having a sense of control she plopped down in the sand as her father marched toward the ocean.
The father turning to see that she hadn’t followed yelled and cajoled with no success. He then proceeded to stomp back, pick her up and forcefully take her down to the ocean. She reciprocated with her blood curdling screams and kicking. After a couple of smacks with no success the persistent father marched back toward their place on the sand. I had just witnessed the struggle between two Choleric personalities going head to head and though the father was older and larger in stature the little girl won.
A few minutes afterward I saw this same kind of scene played out in another family. A mother was taking her two children to the ocean. The younger girl stomped her feet whined and cried “I want to go to the pool.” This went on for about five minutes until her mother came back and took her to the pool. The father sitting right there never moved, never spoke and continued to just bathe in the sun. Being a Phlegmatic he didn’t want to get involved in the conflict and his wife had no choice. Once again the child won.
The turmoil was over so I picked up my book and continued relaxing in the sun. A few minutes later I heard a man talking loudly. I looked up from my book to see him standing in front of a semi circle of sun bathers demonstratively waving his hands and arms as he entertained his audience. That was the first clue that he was a Sanguine.
Later as I moved my chair closer to the ocean I heard the same man complaining about something as he took charge to correct the situation. I then realized that he was not only Sanguine but Choleric by nature too. There's always more than meets the eye if we look beyond the usual. A few days ago I observed ingenuity on the beach (the previous post) and today the personalities. What are you observing in your situations at home or work?
If you are confused about the personalities I described above you might want to attend the Uniquely His seminar during the Family Enrichment Week at Calvary Assembly of God in Dover, DE July 30 through August 3. Hope to see you there.
(picture of Grandpa Coon and 2 month Maielle)
Sunday, July 15, 2007
Seeing Beyond the Usual
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Sitting at the beach in my chair reading an article about writers I remember that I’m supposed to be observant. Being observant gives you ideas from which to write. So putting my magazine down I begin looking around. I see sand, people, children playing, beach chairs, umbrellas, water, waves -- it all looks pretty usual to me.
But then I observe something quite ingenious. In fact when we first settled in our family circle on the sand I had noticed this bit of ingenuity and was quite intrigued. Next to us in the sand a couple had carved out their own beach chairs made of sand. They dug a whole deep and wide enough in which to sit. Then they took the displaced sand and piled it high enough to lean against as if it were the back of their chair. They laid their colorful beach towel the length of the sand chair thereby making a comfortable custom made beach chair. Lying comfortably back they sat as if in a lounge chair. Ingenious, that’s what it is.
I then begin looking around for more signs of ingenuity. There are Wonder Wheels all around us – carts that could hold lawn chairs, beach bags, umbrella, coolers and almost anything you could hang from the side or pile on top and then you just push or pull it back to your car. How ingenious is that? No more multiple trips back and forth from the car to beach.
Next my eyes fall on a tent umbrella. Two small children are napping under the umbrella with tent-like flaps weighted in the sand to protect from wind, sand and sun. One umbrella has a four-cup rack surrounding its stake. What will they think of next?
Beach chairs are all around me but I had never noticed the ingenuity of their evolution. Years ago the chairs were just like our lawn chairs and high off the ground. Now you sit close to the sand with many styles and variations – cup holder in the arm, cup holder on the side, umbrella attached to the back, mesh pocket on the side in which to put spray lotion, pen, magazine; or there’s the backpack like pocket the whole width and length of the back of the chair and a chair bag in which to put the collapsible chair so you can sling it over your shoulder. Hmm, I can’t wait to see the next evolutionary aspect.
I pretty much thought I had seen it all when I turn my chair around and sitting in front of me is an older couple with identical chairs. Between them is a small teal table the style of a TV tray but shorter, and on top are two bottles of soda. Maybe it’s not convenient but it’s ingenious.
How many times do we miss the obvious among the common? Our perceptions are stuck on automatic so we assume our normal thinking patterns. All the while there is another perception, another view or a deeper meaning waiting to be observed. You don’t have to be a writer to be observant; just alive and alert. Who knows you may break out of a rut, see something wonderful in your husband, or come up with a brilliant idea. Try it today and see what lies beyond the usual.
Monday, July 9, 2007
Rain is on its Way
Participating in The Call Delaware this past Saturday for a few hours was a great way to end forty days of prayer and fasting. The crowd was small but sincere and fervent; certainly not discouraged by numbers. We marched around the stadium a few times, agreed in repenting prayer for our nation, worshipped together, and had times of meditation and personal prayer. There was a sweet presence of the Lord.
I was reminded of the devotional I had written earlier in the week when Elijah was the lone prophet at Mt. Carmel. Numbers didn’t matter. God was with Elijah and had promised the rain. Four hundred and fifty prophets of Baal chanted, cut themselves, frantically plead for Baal to send fire on the altar but nothing happened. After a very short prayer the God of Elijah immediately sent fire. One man, one prayer and a king and nation were convinced that Jehovah was the one true God.
What could fifty people accomplish after forty days of praying and fasting? Only time will tell. But that wasn’t the end of the story. God had promised rain and Elijah told Ahab to hurry home to celebrate because rain was coming. However, Elijah didn’t just sit around and wait for the rain, he knelt and prayed fervently for the rain. I believe God has promised us the fire of his cleansing, refining and then the rain of his refreshing. He has promised to birth His will and purposes in us. But, we must keep seeking His face humbly and fervently in order to see it come to pass. Keep praying until we hear the thunder. Keep doing spiritual warfare.
The servant kept looking for rain for seven times and then only saw a small cloud. But then there was a suddenly – “things happened fast.” God always has a suddenly in our lives. Don’t’ get discouraged if it doesn’t happen as quickly as you expect or want. Don’t give up on the thing God has promised. Don’t give up on the move of God in your life, your family or church. Keep believing. Keep expecting. Keep praying. Keep watching. A suddenly is about to happen. What suddenly are you expecting?
I was reminded of the devotional I had written earlier in the week when Elijah was the lone prophet at Mt. Carmel. Numbers didn’t matter. God was with Elijah and had promised the rain. Four hundred and fifty prophets of Baal chanted, cut themselves, frantically plead for Baal to send fire on the altar but nothing happened. After a very short prayer the God of Elijah immediately sent fire. One man, one prayer and a king and nation were convinced that Jehovah was the one true God.
What could fifty people accomplish after forty days of praying and fasting? Only time will tell. But that wasn’t the end of the story. God had promised rain and Elijah told Ahab to hurry home to celebrate because rain was coming. However, Elijah didn’t just sit around and wait for the rain, he knelt and prayed fervently for the rain. I believe God has promised us the fire of his cleansing, refining and then the rain of his refreshing. He has promised to birth His will and purposes in us. But, we must keep seeking His face humbly and fervently in order to see it come to pass. Keep praying until we hear the thunder. Keep doing spiritual warfare.
The servant kept looking for rain for seven times and then only saw a small cloud. But then there was a suddenly – “things happened fast.” God always has a suddenly in our lives. Don’t’ get discouraged if it doesn’t happen as quickly as you expect or want. Don’t give up on the thing God has promised. Don’t give up on the move of God in your life, your family or church. Keep believing. Keep expecting. Keep praying. Keep watching. A suddenly is about to happen. What suddenly are you expecting?
Thursday, July 5, 2007
Freedom's Child
As a child, the Fourth of a July was an exciting day. I awoke to the smell of chicken frying and Mom scurrying to get everything ready for our picnic. Excitement mounted as we packed the car with lawn chairs, fishing gear, beach toys and food. The ride to Northeast, Maryland seemed so long but quickly forgotten as we swam in the Chesapeake Bay while Dad fished to his hearts content. Friends from Dad’s workplace accompanied us and we stayed from morning to sundown playing in the sand, swimming, gathering shells, boating and, of course, eating Mom’s delicious Southern fried chicken with potatoe salad and baked beans. We always looked forward to the cotton candy, popsicles or ice cream bars at the food stand. The fireworks were the highlight of the day and then we’d fall asleep on the way home. I can’t say that I gave freedom much of a thought during those days. The Fourth of July was an excuse to do something special with family and friends.
As an adult, I now appreciate the freedom I had has a child. Freedom to sleep in while my mother cut and diced potatoes, boiled and sliced eggs, floured and fried chicken, turning it from time to time while gathering all the supplies for the picnic -- towels and toys, Coppertone and sunblock, fly swatter and bug spray, salt and pepper, napkins and paper plates and the list goes on and on. How did she remember it all? I had freedom to go play while my mother cleaned up the paper plates and packed the leftovers on ice again. Freedom from worry and anxiety. Freedom to play and explore while Mom watched to make sure we were all safe and secure. Freedom to fall asleep while Dad drove home. Freedom to just go to bed while Mom put everything away and started a wash of clothes from the day. Yeah, the Fourth of July is a celebration of freedom alright. I’ll always remember those carefree days with great delight. Now I know the cost of my freedom and I’m not about to forget it.
As an adult, I now appreciate the freedom I had has a child. Freedom to sleep in while my mother cut and diced potatoes, boiled and sliced eggs, floured and fried chicken, turning it from time to time while gathering all the supplies for the picnic -- towels and toys, Coppertone and sunblock, fly swatter and bug spray, salt and pepper, napkins and paper plates and the list goes on and on. How did she remember it all? I had freedom to go play while my mother cleaned up the paper plates and packed the leftovers on ice again. Freedom from worry and anxiety. Freedom to play and explore while Mom watched to make sure we were all safe and secure. Freedom to fall asleep while Dad drove home. Freedom to just go to bed while Mom put everything away and started a wash of clothes from the day. Yeah, the Fourth of July is a celebration of freedom alright. I’ll always remember those carefree days with great delight. Now I know the cost of my freedom and I’m not about to forget it.
Wednesday, July 4, 2007
Celebrate Freedom!
Today is the Fourth of July and we're celebrating with our family and friends. I can smell the barbecue shish-ka-bob now and my mouth is watering at the thought of corn on the cob ,sweet watermelon and cantaloupe. Hmm, hmm delicious. But tonight we celebrate with fireworks!! It's a family tradition and we dare not break tradition.
These are a few of the blessings we enjoy because of freedom. Family, friends, cookouts, great food, freedom of movement and gathering, fireworks, celebrations and traditions. Our freedom, like so many other countries, has come at a dear price -- the price of the lives of our children, fathers, brothers and sisters, mothers, aunts and uncles, grandfathers. We're celebrating their sacrifice and celebrate we should.
However, I'm also reminded that there are other freedoms that came at a very dear price -- the shame, beating, blood and life of one called Jesus. Spiritual freedom wasn't free either. How do we celebrate that freedom? Freedom from the power of sin.
Freedom from being a slave to addictions,
Freedom to make new choices out of our new nature.
Freedom to respond to God.
Freedom to live and breathe and have our being in Christ.
Freedom from captivity.
Freedom from the prison of spiritual darkness.
Freedom to see as God sees.
Freedom from the chains that bound us.
Freedom from the garment of heaviness to receive a spirit of praise.
Freedom to have an audience with God anytime or anywhere.
Freedom to pray with assurance in knowing that we have been heard.
Freedom to walk away from the identities of the past.
Freedom to receive and live out of a new identity in Christ.
Freedom from the ashes of rejection to receive a crown of beauty.
Freedom to be all that God has designed us to be.
Freedom to to fullfil His plan for our lives, His purpose and destiny.
Freedom! It's already been purchased; it's ours. Celebrate by walking in it. Celebrate by walking it out in our everyday lives.
Today I proclaim FREEDOM!!! (Isaiah 61:1-3) What freedoms are you thankful for?
These are a few of the blessings we enjoy because of freedom. Family, friends, cookouts, great food, freedom of movement and gathering, fireworks, celebrations and traditions. Our freedom, like so many other countries, has come at a dear price -- the price of the lives of our children, fathers, brothers and sisters, mothers, aunts and uncles, grandfathers. We're celebrating their sacrifice and celebrate we should.
However, I'm also reminded that there are other freedoms that came at a very dear price -- the shame, beating, blood and life of one called Jesus. Spiritual freedom wasn't free either. How do we celebrate that freedom? Freedom from the power of sin.
Freedom from being a slave to addictions,
Freedom to make new choices out of our new nature.
Freedom to respond to God.
Freedom to live and breathe and have our being in Christ.
Freedom from captivity.
Freedom from the prison of spiritual darkness.
Freedom to see as God sees.
Freedom from the chains that bound us.
Freedom from the garment of heaviness to receive a spirit of praise.
Freedom to have an audience with God anytime or anywhere.
Freedom to pray with assurance in knowing that we have been heard.
Freedom to walk away from the identities of the past.
Freedom to receive and live out of a new identity in Christ.
Freedom from the ashes of rejection to receive a crown of beauty.
Freedom to be all that God has designed us to be.
Freedom to to fullfil His plan for our lives, His purpose and destiny.
Freedom! It's already been purchased; it's ours. Celebrate by walking in it. Celebrate by walking it out in our everyday lives.
Today I proclaim FREEDOM!!! (Isaiah 61:1-3) What freedoms are you thankful for?
Friday, June 29, 2007
How Wide is Your Circle of Generosity?
"Whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows generously will also reap generously." As I read those words from 2 Corinthians 9 this morning my heart overflowed with thanksgiving for the people who have so generously sewn into my life. I have a rich, Christian heritage filled with people who loved, taught and lived the Word of God. My Mother is my greatest example. Her life was not easy working as a waitress, mother, wife, housekeeper, cook, laundress, and spiritual model to three children. But through it all she tenaciously went after God. Consequently, her children were blessed by her generosity and we are all now serving the Lord. In the morning she left before sunrise for work but her Bible was left open on the table. At other times we could hear her praying behind closed doors. We gathered for family devotions taking turns reading the Bible. Going to church together was as normal as clockwork -- if the doors were open, we were there. Singing together as she played the guitar was one of our favorite times together. Mom taught Sunday School but more was caught by her loving attitude and obedience than any words she spoke. Because she had been in the Word, practiced the presence of God in prayer, went to church to be taught and be in fellowship she was able to sow generously into the lives of her children, neighbors, co-workers, friends, and later others she visited and brought to church when her own nest was empty. Freely she received, freely she gave. The circle of her influence reached far and wide in Newark, Delaware. Our neighbors were saved and their children and some of their grandchldren. Many other children were saved and discipled under her care who are now mothers and fathers passing on the generosity of my Mom. I believe her generoslity reaches out even now through me to you. "Thanks be to God for His indescribable gift -- my Mom and grace." Women, are we sowing sparingly or generously into our family or looking out for number one? How wide will our circle of influence reach? "Now he who supplies seed to the sower and bread for food will also supply and increase your store of seed and will enlarge the harvest of your righteousness. You will be made rich in every way so that you can be generous on every occasion, and through us your generosity will result in thanksgiving to God. " (Read 2 Corinthians 9.) You can never outgive the Lord.
Wednesday, June 20, 2007
Mind Your Mind
Saturday night I had the distinct privilege of speaking at the Gold Medal Award Ceremony for Rebecca Torsky and Theresa Kaehler – two of our teenagers. To get this award they had to graduate with honors from the five Missionette clubs of the Assemblies of God. They are two of twenty-two in the nation who have achieved this goal and we are very proud of them. I challenged them to live the Missionette Code; "Whatever is true, whatever is noble, (honest)whatever is right, (just) whatever is pure,whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable, (good report)if anything is excellent (virtue)or praiseworthy, think about such things."
I probably use that verse more than any other while coaching, counseling, or just plain encouraging. Right thinking produces right feelings and right living. If our thinking is stinking then so will our feelings and actions follow, I’m always asking myself, “what am I telling myself.” “Is it true, or am I making an assumption?”
We tend to allow our thinking to wander pretty much where ever it happens to fall. In a negative, depraved culture it can wander down some pretty dark paths assuming the very worst of ourselves or others and our situations. But I discovered that I can be intentional in my thinking – I can choose my thoughts. I can pay attention to what I’m saying in my head and choose not to think negative, dark, critical, improper, polluted, unwholesome, undignified, dishonorable, unethical, insane, ugly substandard, unacceptable thoughts.
We have a choice, ladies. Praise God! The Word tells us that we “have the mind of Christ.” We can choose to think out of His true, pure,right, lovely, noble, admirable, excellent, praiseworthy thoughts. Read Romans 12:1-2. Paul reminds us to “be transformed by the renewing of our minds.” God does the transforming as we do what only we can do – renew our minds with the Word of God. Read it, memorize it; think, speak and act on the Word of God and your thoughts will change. Don’t’ just let the enemy have a heyday with your mind. Take charge. Be intentional in your thinking. Mind your mind.
I probably use that verse more than any other while coaching, counseling, or just plain encouraging. Right thinking produces right feelings and right living. If our thinking is stinking then so will our feelings and actions follow, I’m always asking myself, “what am I telling myself.” “Is it true, or am I making an assumption?”
We tend to allow our thinking to wander pretty much where ever it happens to fall. In a negative, depraved culture it can wander down some pretty dark paths assuming the very worst of ourselves or others and our situations. But I discovered that I can be intentional in my thinking – I can choose my thoughts. I can pay attention to what I’m saying in my head and choose not to think negative, dark, critical, improper, polluted, unwholesome, undignified, dishonorable, unethical, insane, ugly substandard, unacceptable thoughts.
We have a choice, ladies. Praise God! The Word tells us that we “have the mind of Christ.” We can choose to think out of His true, pure,right, lovely, noble, admirable, excellent, praiseworthy thoughts. Read Romans 12:1-2. Paul reminds us to “be transformed by the renewing of our minds.” God does the transforming as we do what only we can do – renew our minds with the Word of God. Read it, memorize it; think, speak and act on the Word of God and your thoughts will change. Don’t’ just let the enemy have a heyday with your mind. Take charge. Be intentional in your thinking. Mind your mind.
Tuesday, June 12, 2007
I Cry Holy
This morning I was awakened by my mind and spirit singing Dennis Jernigan's song "I cry Holy" -- Holy is the Lamb, Holy is the Lamb, Holy is the Lamb! The presence of God was very palpable and all I could do was worship. I arose out of bed, went downstairs, put the dogs out, made the coffee, put the "I Cry Holy" CD on and worshipped on my sunroom. It was easy to pray and hear God's voice. I wish it was like that everyday -- so easy to fend off any distractions, easy to concentrate, and enter into the Holy of Holies; but it isn't. So, I'm always grateful for His manifest presence when it comes and awakens me and keeps me company. I know God is always there but I don't' always feel Him like I did today. Today, it was as if He desired my company so much that He awakened me with a song. It's like my beloved had come to the window and called my name but this time there was no dallying, no excuses, no turning over for a few more winks -- just immediate response to His call -- "Here I am, my love."
I guess the glow from Sundays worship was still with me. Dennis has a vulnerable, intimate relationship with the Father that pulls you with him into the throne room worshipping at the feet of Jesus. What an impact he left with our church through his life, his music and his ministry. But you know, the Father desires to do the same through us. It will cost us something just as it has Dennis. It wasn't until he gave up his old identity that Dennis was able to receive his new identity and then the music (pregnant with possibilities for those of you who heard the talk) started flowing from his heart to the father and then to the rest of us. Ladies, it's' going to cost us something but it will be worth it. Lets keep pursuing, keep praying, keep believing God to birth His will and purposes in us.
(For some responses to Dennis Jernigans ministry on Sunday, check the comments under the previous post - "God bless Edna Gooden".
I guess the glow from Sundays worship was still with me. Dennis has a vulnerable, intimate relationship with the Father that pulls you with him into the throne room worshipping at the feet of Jesus. What an impact he left with our church through his life, his music and his ministry. But you know, the Father desires to do the same through us. It will cost us something just as it has Dennis. It wasn't until he gave up his old identity that Dennis was able to receive his new identity and then the music (pregnant with possibilities for those of you who heard the talk) started flowing from his heart to the father and then to the rest of us. Ladies, it's' going to cost us something but it will be worth it. Lets keep pursuing, keep praying, keep believing God to birth His will and purposes in us.
(For some responses to Dennis Jernigans ministry on Sunday, check the comments under the previous post - "God bless Edna Gooden".
Monday, June 11, 2007
God bless Edna Gooden!!!
Today we celebrated Calvary Assembly of God's 53rd Anniversary of minsitry in the Dover/Kent County area. To think that it was a woman who started the church in her kitchen with a few people and now the church is over 1500 while in a city of 35,000. I doubt very seriously that Edna ever imagined the magnitude of responsibility she held in her heart when she said "yes" to God and to the dream He placed in her. She was pregnant with possibilities and the possibility of a church had been fluttering in her for a long time. Then it began to kick and she couldn't ignore the call to birth a church. I wonder what would have happened if Edna had been concerned about how clean her house was or that the people might track in dirt and mud. I wonder what would have happened if she had let her insecurities get the best of her. Where we would be today? I wonder if she doubted God's call at times or her ability to fulfill it. She's one of my heros. She listened to the desire placed inside of her and went against all the obstacles and doubts and opened her heart and home to Dover. As a result thousands of lives have been saved, marriages restored, teenagers pulled from destruction, children set on the foundation of truth, lives turned around through deliverance and transformation. That's a pretty good dividend for her investment of time, energy, prayer, and obedience. What desire is fluttering within you? What dream is kicking to get out? What would God birth in you? No matter how small or insignificant it may seem, open your heart to its call . Push through the fear, let go of all excuses, replace the doubt with faith and just go for it. God's call will not lead you where His grace cannot keep you. Be an Edna Gooden.
Sunday, June 10, 2007
Psalm 4 Devotional
Psalm 4 Devotional
While reading the Word I often stop and pray about what I’ve read. I thought I would give you a sample of it with Psalm 4 which I was reading on Saturday. The scripture is in italics and my prayer for us is in regular font.
Psalm 4 (The kind of persons God will answer)
David:
“Answer me when I call to you, O my righteous God. Give me relief from my distress; be merciful to me and hear my prayer.”
Jehovah: “How long, O men, will you turn my glory into shame? How long will you love delusions and seek false gods? Selah
Our Prayer: Keep us from turning your glory into shame and from loving delusions and seeking false gods. Show us where we may be exchanging your glory for the shameful deeds of darkness. Expose our delusions that I may cast them off. Keep us pure and holy in your sight.
David: “Know that the Lord has set apart the godly for himself; the Lord will hear when I call to him.
Our Prayer: Set us apart unto yourself. Cause us to see ourselves as yours – bought with your blood, cleansed from the stain of our deepest sins, redeemed from its power. I consecrate myself to you, O Lord. Cleanse me from any hidden sin. Hear when I call to you.
David: “In your anger do not sin; when you are on your beds, search your hearts and be silent. Selah”
· Lord show us how to express our anger appropriately without sinning. Show us why we’ve chosen anger as a response. Is the problem really in us? Where is the anger coming from?. Help us to deal by asking the questions and dealing with the real problem – many times our expectations are unrealistic, our pride has been injured, our all or nothing thinking frustrated or our sin exposed. Help us to be honest with ourselves. Let us not turn the anger inward or allow it to harm others. Give us “deal with it” grace.
“Offer right sacrifices and trust in the Lord.”
· If I’m trusting you Lord – confident in your love for me, resting in your grace, I will offer the right sacrifices.
· Teach me to trust you more. I choose to know you more intimately by communing with you, listening and obeying your voice , your Word.
· Help me to offer sacrifices that cost me something – my pride, my time, my energy, my agenda, my self-centeredness – myself.
· Help me to offer sacrifices of praise and worship in my lifestyle that honor and glorify you.
· I present my “body” as a living sacrifice. My body is your temple – I give it to you as your dwelling place.
“Let the light of your face shine upon us, O Lord. You have filled my heart with greater joy than when their grain and and wine abound.
I will lie down and sleep in peace for you alone, O Lord, make me dwell in safety.”
· Write out your own prayer.
Have a blessed week as we continue to fast, pray and believe for spiritual breakthroughs for ourselves, our church, community and nation -- Angela
Saturday, June 9, 2007
Uniquely His Workshop
Some of you have been asking for a Uniquely His Workshop so I have scheduled one for Saturday, June 23, 9:00 - 3:30 pm in Room 205-208. The cost will be $10 to cover the bag lunch and workbook.
In 1988 after a year of what I call "spiritual surgery" I was supernaturally enabled to let go of the identity that had kept me stuck in shame and defeat. Receiving my identity in Christ was as life changing for me as my salvation. I was baptized in God's amazing grace and I'v'e never been the same. Understanding, receiving and walking in our Identity In Christ is one of the most crucial aspects of our Spiritual formation as a Child of God. Without it we cannot move on in continual victory and growth. I now rest, stand and walk out of God's grace. I continually experience new levels of freedom and growth. I haven't "arrived" but I'm confidently pressing forward to attain in my earthly life that which Christ has already attained for me as His.
You may register at the office during the week and at the event table in the foyer on Sundays. Child Care is not provided. If you have any questions feel free to post them as a comment here or email me at uniquelyhis@comcast.net.
We will have future workshops so don't worry if you cannot attend this time.
In 1988 after a year of what I call "spiritual surgery" I was supernaturally enabled to let go of the identity that had kept me stuck in shame and defeat. Receiving my identity in Christ was as life changing for me as my salvation. I was baptized in God's amazing grace and I'v'e never been the same. Understanding, receiving and walking in our Identity In Christ is one of the most crucial aspects of our Spiritual formation as a Child of God. Without it we cannot move on in continual victory and growth. I now rest, stand and walk out of God's grace. I continually experience new levels of freedom and growth. I haven't "arrived" but I'm confidently pressing forward to attain in my earthly life that which Christ has already attained for me as His.
You may register at the office during the week and at the event table in the foyer on Sundays. Child Care is not provided. If you have any questions feel free to post them as a comment here or email me at uniquelyhis@comcast.net.
We will have future workshops so don't worry if you cannot attend this time.
Tuesday, June 5, 2007
Welcome to your Blog -- Calvary Circle of Friends. Some of you are wondering "what is a blog?" Technically, it's a web log of shared information. A blog can be used to share information, thoughts, inspiration and encouragement, devotions, recommendations, answer questions or a myriad of other things - except maybe bake a cake. It could be used as a diary of thoughts. For our purposes, we will use it to help network and connect as women in process of growing into the likeness of Christ and becoming all God has designed us to be. It is a place to learn and grow, be encouraged or challenged in your walk. We will also keep you up to date as to what is happening with the women of Calvary. What classes are being offered? What events are happening? Any new small groups. Recommendations for books to read or websites to visit.
As you regularly log on there will be new posts to read. You can choose to post a comment as a thought or question. Who are the " Calvary Circle of Friends?" While our blog is aimed at the women who attend Calvary Assembly of God in Dover, Delaware, you may be included in our Circle of Friends. We welcome all women to join the journey to knowing and experiencing Christ fully. Let the journey begin...
As you regularly log on there will be new posts to read. You can choose to post a comment as a thought or question. Who are the " Calvary Circle of Friends?" While our blog is aimed at the women who attend Calvary Assembly of God in Dover, Delaware, you may be included in our Circle of Friends. We welcome all women to join the journey to knowing and experiencing Christ fully. Let the journey begin...
Wednesday, May 30, 2007
Psalm 1 Devotional
Friends,
I’ve heard from a few of you about how things are going with the fasting and prayer. For most you are being blessed in obeying. One expressed being tested. The enemy will certainly come at our weaknesses. For me it has been humbling. As I’m reading and studying the Word I keep seeing areas that need more of His grace and my cooperation with His Holy Spirit. The weight of our sinfulness was overwhelming on Sunday as I was in church. The body of Christ is so out of touch with its compromise with our culture. We have been so de-sensitized and slowly affected that we don’t even recognize the demise.
Psalm 1: 1 tells us” Blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked, or stand in the way of sinners, or sit in the seat of mockers. 2 But his delight is in the law of the LORD, and on his law he meditates day and night.
“Walking in the counsel of the wicked” is the beginning of the compromise. It’s being exposed to ideas and influence that are not Godly. You’re in the place where you can be tempted. Listening, watching and becoming aware of what others think that don’t line up with the Word of God. This influence could come from people at work, TV, magazines, books, movies, friends, etc. It could be a negative example of how to handle a situation. It could be unwholesome talk that doesn’t build you up or glorify God. It could be the “ultra thin, super young, perfect models in your magazine- air brushed with no flaws that sets you up for thinking you are a “hopeless case” cause you will never look that great. It lowers self esteem and set you up for the next stage. The counsel of the ungodly is all around us but most of us invite it into our homes via the TV and rented movies. The sinful compromises wrapped in mysteries, comedy, love stories and cute chick flicks have a way of weaving a deceitful web on the corners of our minds. I can remember when I was a teenager and I watched soap operas –
“’Standing in the way of sinners” - This doesn’t’ mean getting in the way of sinners being saved; but standing among them or with them in their beliefs. Taking on their beliefs, rationalizations, pragmatism, etc. We become comfortable with the ungodly ideas we have been listening to and being influenced by. We stand with them in their arguments because they are starting to make sense to us. Surely we would want our children to participate in “’safe sex” instead of getting pregnant or STD’s. But there is no safe sex – sex outside of marriage is never safe – it’s sinful, death producing and self-destructive. But when we stand with the sinners we agree and say what they say. We see it their way and even take up their argument – “homosexuals are born that way; they can’t help themselves.”
“Sit in the seat of mockers” - Here we are participating in the ungodly idea, activity or philosophy. We have listened, agreed and now we have become one of them. The sinner has many views and even may see God’s view as a possibility. But the one who sits in the seat of mockers no longer considers God’s view as viable – his view is correct. His rationalism is truth. God is wrong – they are right. We have gone past agreement to participation and defending our right to do so.
Sisters, we can become so comfortable in the rationalization of our behavior that we don’t even realize that we are in direct opposition to God’s Word and have become a mocker to the very God we think we serve. The influence of our post modern, post Bible culture is so strong and ungodly it’s a full time job for the follower of Christ to be vigilant and sober because the enemy of our souls, like a roaring lion is seeking whom he may devour. The tide of evil influence is like a strong undercurrent pulling us into its dark, murky waters before we realize we have been captured by its powerful tow.
Hopefully, none of us are sitting with the mockers; but we may be somewhere in the first two. The enemy will condemn you which will cause you to withdraw from God and feel it’s hopeless or impossible to live godly in this modern world. Guilt and conviction, on the other hand, will cause you to run to God to confess (agree with what God says about this sin) and repent – turn from it and follow Christ. Let us come and have our consciences sprinkled with the blood of Christ that we may be cleansed from the influence and the sin of compromise that we may receive grace and mercy in our time of need.
But notice this scripture goes on to say – Blessed is the man who does not (do these things) but his delight is in the law (Word of God) day and night. Let us delight in the Word – read, meditate, memorize, speak, share and live the Word so that we will not be so close to the shore that the undertow can swallow us.
Ps. 119:11 says “’Thy Word have I hid in my heart that I might not sin against God.” I remember fellowshipping with some Christians (one new) who were quoting verbatim parts of movies back and forth as if they were having a conversation. They had watched these movies so much that they could recall the phrases with no problem. I was amazed. I could only quote the ending to “Gone with the Wind.” However, if it had been a scripture marathon I know I would have bypassed them in no time flat. How about you?
Verse 3 of Psalm 1 goes on to say, “He is like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season
and whose leaf does not wither. Whatever he does prospers.”
What a blessing for us who make God’s Word our delight. God plants us (so the current cannot take us away) by streams of water so we have all the water we need to grow. The water is the Holy Spirit as He leads us into all truth. It’s the Holy Spirit who produces the fruit of the Spirit in us (Gal 5:23) in season. Notice that the fruit is produced in season – there is a growth and maturity process. I’ve been a Christian 45 years so the maturity of my fruit should be much greater than those of you who have only recently received Christ or have know Him much less. “The leaf does not wither because there is always enough water – never a drought when we delight in God’s Word day and night.
The Word finally says, “Whatever he does prospers.” God gives us favor, power, wind beneath our wings. He causes the work of our hands to prosper. Our prayers to be answered because when we delight in His Word day and night, we grow in our relationship with Christ and our wants and desires line up with His. When we pray according to His will, we have what we ask.. (John 15)
Be encouraged. The humbling of repentance is doing its work. The delighting in God’s Word day and night during this time of fasting will bring the blessing of being planted and rooted deeply in God. Ungodly influences will be exposed for what they are. Arguments that set themselves against God will be brought low and God will be exalted in your life. It will be worth the time, the sacrifice, the gnawing hunger in your stomach, the pain of change – it will be worth it all.
Praise God – “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” Galatians 6:9
Keep on fasting and praying. Expect God to meet you where you are. Expect God to breakthrough the darkness of our culture. God is on the throne – He reigns. The enemy is a defeated foe and he knows us. He is a toothless lion – all roar. Do not be intimidated by him. Go in the power and authority of Christ.
Father,
Thank you for Your Word that is powerful to the pulling down of strongholds and cutting apart even between bone and marrow. Lord show us if we are in walking in the counsel of the ungodly without being consciously aware. Show us if we have been standing in agreement with ungodly lies masquerading as truths. Expose the lies and set us free from their hold. Cleanse our minds. God have mercy on anyone seated with the mockers. Deliver them from their delusion and set them free to delight in your Word. Cause us to delight in Your Word. Open our minds to receive your truths with gladness of heart. Cause us to be like the deer that pants for the water brooks – may we long for your presence and look forward with great anticipation to reading and absorbing your revelation to us. Open our understanding to receive all you have for us. Enable us to believe the Word and put it into practice and that your fruit of the Spirit might be produced in us. We receive your blessings – prosper the work of our hands – prosper the prayers of our hearts. Amen.
Be blessed this week as you pray and fast.
Pregnant with Possibilities -- Angela
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